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While water is generally used to put out a fire, it can be used to add a little spark back into your sex life.
Perhaps sex with your long-term lover has gotten to be too routine or you just want to try something fun and new. Whatever your reason, adding a little water to the scenario can result in some very hot times.
Poolside


It is a classic – getting it on in the pool. There is something about being outdoors and in the water that must trigger sense memories of when we were hunters and gatherers. It just feels right. Of course, the ocean or a lake is even better for the nature boy in you, but be sure visit a locale where you won’t get arrested.
Floating on an inflatable while doing the deed in a pool is very sensuous. You move, it moves, you move. Sucking and rimming someone on a pool toy can almost be a dance. You can stand in the pool while you push and pull your partner to and away from you with a gliding ease.

Rubber ducky
One couple I know found that water helped them reach new levels of sexual intimacy in the bathtub. Make sure you’ve set aside plenty of time to enjoy the bath itself and anything that might result from it. Candles can help set an evocative mood, transforming a most banal room into a romantic setting.
Given the size of most tubs, where usually some part of your body winds up sticking out into the cold while you’re in there alone trying to relax, fitting two people into it will make for an even tighter squeeze. So you probably want to plan on a sensual idyll rather than a hot and sweaty acrobatic session of underwater fucking. Your downstairs neighbors, if you have any, will appreciate the lack of splashing that sex would result in.
Singing in the shower rain


Given the stress and pressures of work schedules, many couples who live together wind up in a bit of a rut when it comes to sex. Exhausted after a long day, having to get up early the next morning, a quickie orgasm before bed comes to be the best one can hope for many nights.


To break the monotony, why not try getting up a bit earlier and joining him for his morning shower instead of taking turns while the other makes coffee in the rush to get to work?


Now, some relationships are mixed marriages - one partner liking a cold shower, the other scalding hot - but in this case, a compromise is worthwhile for both parties. Soaping each other’s bodies, rubbing against one another, all slippery when wet, it’s hard not to get aroused when his hand slides across your ass or balls. Dropping to your knees, making sure to rinse him off first so you don’t get a mouth full of suds, a little bit of oral sex can leave your partner singing in the shower, not to mention, smiling all morning as he heads off to work.


Just make sure that water running down his body won’t drown you when you’re down on your knees before him, or vice versa. And you might try letting your mouth fill with warm water before going down on him - a trick you can try elsewhere, although if you’re in bed you risk wetting the sheets.


Ice ice baby, ice
Is it a warm summer evening? Take an ice cube in your mouth and rub it along your lover’s back, sliding it down his legs, around and in his asshole, up his back, over his chest. The contrast of sensations, the cold and heat, are so shocking and so delicious. A variation on this is to put a few ice shaving in your mouth before taking his cock. Try it with flavored water.


One of the funniest pick-up lines I’ve ever heard involved ice. A friend was out one night at a bar. He ordered a glass of ice water, dipped his finger into the glass to catch some ice cubes and tossed them lightly onto the object of his attention. He then repeated the same action on himself and said to the man: “Why don’t we go somewhere and get out of these wet clothes?”


Water battle
If you’re a bit shy like I am, you may not be bold enough to try tossing water on a complete stranger. But starting a water fight with a current lover? You bet.


The principle is pretty much the same. It doesn’t matter if you use a garden hose, a water pistol, or even a glass of water.


The shock or surprise of what you’ve done will usually lead to him retaliating with something wet and before you know it, there you both are, wrestling together. I’d recommend staging the water fight someplace where the two of you are alone, so you can get out of those wet clothes that are probably starting to steam with the heat the two of you are giving off. The important thing is to get wet, have fun and enjoy each other.
Water can take so many forms, be it liquid, ice, steam. All of them can be used to enhance your erotic life. The only recipe you need to recall and use is simple: Just add water.

 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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