
While water is generally used to put out
a fire, it can be used to add a little spark back into
your sex life.
Perhaps sex with your long-term lover has gotten to be
too routine or you just want to try something fun and
new. Whatever your reason, adding a little water to the
scenario can result in some very hot times.
Poolside
It is a classic – getting it on in the pool. There
is something about being outdoors and in the water that
must trigger sense memories of when we were hunters and
gatherers. It just feels right. Of course, the ocean or
a lake is even better for the nature boy in you, but be
sure visit a locale where you won’t get arrested.
Floating on an inflatable while doing the deed in a pool
is very sensuous. You move, it moves, you move. Sucking
and rimming someone on a pool toy can almost be a dance.
You can stand in the pool while you push and pull your
partner to and away from you with a gliding ease.
Rubber ducky
One couple I know found that water helped them reach new
levels of sexual intimacy in the bathtub. Make sure you’ve
set aside plenty of time to enjoy the bath itself and
anything that might result from it. Candles can help set
an evocative mood, transforming a most banal room into
a romantic setting.
Given the size of most tubs, where usually some part of
your body winds up sticking out into the cold while you’re
in there alone trying to relax, fitting two people into
it will make for an even tighter squeeze. So you probably
want to plan on a sensual idyll rather than a hot and
sweaty acrobatic session of underwater fucking. Your downstairs
neighbors, if you have any, will appreciate the lack of
splashing that sex would result in.
Singing in the shower rain
Given the stress and pressures of work schedules, many
couples who live together wind up in a bit of a rut when
it comes to sex. Exhausted after a long day, having to
get up early the next morning, a quickie orgasm before
bed comes to be the best one can hope for many nights.
To break the monotony, why not try getting up a bit earlier
and joining him for his morning shower instead of taking
turns while the other makes coffee in the rush to get
to work?
Now, some relationships are mixed marriages - one partner
liking a cold shower, the other scalding hot - but in
this case, a compromise is worthwhile for both parties.
Soaping each other’s bodies, rubbing against one
another, all slippery when wet, it’s hard not to
get aroused when his hand slides across your ass or balls.
Dropping to your knees, making sure to rinse him off first
so you don’t get a mouth full of suds, a little
bit of oral sex can leave your partner singing in the
shower, not to mention, smiling all morning as he heads
off to work.
Just make sure that water running down his body won’t
drown you when you’re down on your knees before
him, or vice versa. And you might try letting your mouth
fill with warm water before going down on him - a trick
you can try elsewhere, although if you’re in bed
you risk wetting the sheets.
Ice ice baby, ice
Is it a warm summer evening? Take an ice cube in your
mouth and rub it along your lover’s back, sliding
it down his legs, around and in his asshole, up his back,
over his chest. The contrast of sensations, the cold and
heat, are so shocking and so delicious. A variation on
this is to put a few ice shaving in your mouth before
taking his cock. Try it with flavored water.
One of the funniest pick-up lines I’ve ever heard
involved ice. A friend was out one night at a bar. He
ordered a glass of ice water, dipped his finger into the
glass to catch some ice cubes and tossed them lightly
onto the object of his attention. He then repeated the
same action on himself and said to the man: “Why
don’t we go somewhere and get out of these wet clothes?”
Water battle
If you’re a bit shy like I am, you may not be bold
enough to try tossing water on a complete stranger. But
starting a water fight with a current lover? You bet.
The principle is pretty much the same. It doesn’t
matter if you use a garden hose, a water pistol, or even
a glass of water.
The shock or surprise of what you’ve done will usually
lead to him retaliating with something wet and before
you know it, there you both are, wrestling together. I’d
recommend staging the water fight someplace where the
two of you are alone, so you can get out of those wet
clothes that are probably starting to steam with the heat
the two of you are giving off. The important thing is
to get wet, have fun and enjoy each other.
Water can take so many forms, be it liquid, ice, steam.
All of them can be used to enhance your erotic life. The
only recipe you need to recall and use is simple: Just
add water.

