BE REALISTIC
Sure, we all want to bag and boink the men of the French National Rugby Team, but unless you look kind of like one of them it probably ain't gonna happen anytime soon.

MAKE DATING A PRIORITY
Take an approach that you would for finding a job. Always be prepared because you never know when or where you'll meet someone. Be ready with some interesting conversation and clean underwear.

SKIP THE EX TALK
Your potential new BF doesn't want to hear ex's pro (he was the first man to complete you) or con (he could and did braid his nose hair). Keep the first dates focused on the right now.

IT'S A DATE, NOT THERAPY
Yes, your mother was too critical and you have issues with intimacy, but keep that stuff for your weekly visit to the shrink's couch. He is paid to listen to you. Your date can run from the restaurant.

DON'T GET NAKED TOO EARLY
Save the play and poke for later. How often have you fucked on the first date and never saw the guy again? If he is BF material, he can keep it in his pants for a bit. As should you.

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