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By Bob Findle
Prince
Albert for $20 is the Jeopardy answer. Is the question: What
is a chewing tobacco brand? Who was Queen Victoria's husband?
What is the name of a genital piercing? All three would win
the brainy contestant the Andrew Jackson.
“People
generally know about the Prince Albert piercing,” says
Paul King of Cold Steel America, a piercing and tattoo studio
with two locations in San Francisco (coldsteel.co.uk/).
“Often though, they mistakenly think that it's the only
type of male genital piercing available and use Prince Albert
or PA as a blanket
term for all piercing, which isn't correct.”
While the PA is probably the most popular piercing men seek,
there are more options.
“Any
man considering getting pierced should first get all the information
available,” says King. “There are many Internet
sites that describe the various piercing types and jewelry,
but I like to also refer people to safepiercing.org.
It gives a lot of information about safety, health issues,
aftercare and what to look for in a piercer.”
There’s
a surprise in my pants
Some
of the earliest mentions of piercings are in the Kama Sutra,
that how-to sex book dating back to around 700AD. A lot of
cock has been pierced since then.
“I
got my PA about four years ago,” says Les. “I
did it because I just wanted to try something exciting and
different. It was a very spontaneous thing for me.”
He
says most guys he has sex with like the piercing. Some decide
to get one of their own.
“My
advice,” Les says, “is to start off with one of
the smaller gauges, like a 10, and then grow into a bigger
size gradually.”
Gauge
is the measure of wire thickness. The smaller the number,
the thicker the wire. For example, a 10 gauge is a little
smaller than 1/8 inch in diameter, while a 4 gauge is a little
smaller than 1/4 inch.
Brian,
another pierced man, bets most people looking at him would
never think he sports meat metal, but he took on his first
two piercings in 2001. He now has four.
“My
husband was very interested in my piercings when we first
saw each other across the steam room at the gym,” he
says. “He figured that I wasn't as vanilla as I looked.”
The
surprise element is something many pierced guys say they enjoy.
Scott,
who has a PA and a guiche, says, “When I am with a guy
for the first time, I like to see the reaction when I drop
my pants. They are always curious about the how and why. To
some, it adds a new element to sex. On the other hand, some
guys are turned off by the piercings. If I get a sense from
the guy before we hit the bedroom that he may not like the
piercings, I tell him up front so there isn't any weirdness.”
Brian
laughs when he comments that some guys, when they see his
pierced goods, grab their own boys as if they were getting
pierced at that very moment.
“They
ask, 'Did it hurt?' I answer: 'Think about it. It's a needle
in your scrotum. Of course it hurts. But, the immediate pain
of piercing is short, while the pleasure of a new captive
ring or a barbell lasts a long time.

To
pierce or not to pierce
Piercings,
says King, are a very personal expression and are sought out
by the individual for their own pleasure and erotic presentation.
Brian agrees.
“I
most certainly got the piercings for body decoration,”
he says. “I enjoy how they look and the clinking noise
they make. I enjoy the sexual pleasure. One of the sexiest
things about my rings is that I can show who I want to, or
not. My co-workers have no idea, but my sex partners have
a great time with them.”
Is
it just gay men doing the dong decorating?
No,
says Jim Ward, who has the honor of being dubbed the granddaddy
of the modern piercing movement by MTV in a documentary on
the subject. In 1975, he opened The Gauntlet, considered the
first piercing studio in the United States. Where? West Hollywood,
where else? Ward also started publishing Piercing Fans International
Quarterly, or PFIQ for short. Although the store closed in
1998 and the magazine stopped publication after 50 issues,
the Gauntlet lives on at gauntletenterprises.com
Ward is now working on a book about the history of piercing.
“Back
in the early '70s, gay men gravitated toward piercing initially
through the leather and S/M communities,” Ward says.
“I opened the store to meet that interest.”
Once
established, Ward says clientele began to include other gay
men and then people from the fetish communities, both gay
and straight.
“Piercing
is across the board today,” he says. “Celebrities
helped make that happen. And still do. For example, when Janet
Jackson flashed her breast at the 2004 Super Bowl, she was
wearing a Gauntlet sunburst nipple shield I
created in the mid-'70s.”
Elayne
Angel, owner and founder of Rings of Desire (ringsofdesire.com),
a piercing studio in the French Quarter of New Orleans, has
been doing the work
since the 1980s. She agrees with Ward about gay men.
“Gay
men were the only people really into it initially,”
she says. “What is different now is that the media have
made more people aware of piercing. The younger generations
got interested. Celebrities started doing it. Now, lots of
other people are involved, not just gay men.”
Angel's
clients include singer Lenny Kravitz, who has had his nostril,
nipple and pubic area pierced. She also comments that business
is brisk during Southern Decadence, the Labor Day circuit
party.
“Lots
of gay guys come in and many get a genital piercing,”
she says. “There is something about getting your piercing
while you are on vacation. Gives you something to remember
where you were and what you did.”
Before
heading to the piercer
The
three men, Les, Brian and Scott, interviewed for this article
all agree on several points. You need to trust the person
who is about to put a needle in your nipple, your dick or
your scrotum; have an idea of what size gauge you want; and
do the recommended aftercare and allow healing. You'll be
eager to show off your new doodad, but don't rush it. There
will be plenty of time for show and tell once everything is
all better.
Choices
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Ampallang
The piercing is made horizontally
through the penis head. This can be
done either above, under or through
the urethra. It's important the piercing is done in
a straight line, otherwise damage to sensitive nerves
and arteries can occur.
Healing time: 4-6 months or longer.
Apadravya
The piercing is vertical through the
penis head and can be placed through
or around the urethra. Incorrect needle placement can
result in severe bleeding and/or damage to the corpus
cavernosum (where 90% of the blood
that makes an erection is held).
Healing time: 4-6 months.
Dydoe
The needle is placed through the
ridge on either the top or sides of the
penis head. Usually done on men
who have been circumcised because
jewelry placed under the foreskin can
cause tears and infections.
Healing time: 2-3 months.
Foreskin
piercing
The foreskin can be pierced with
either single or multiple piercings.
There are not too many complications
usually involved with this piercing.
Healing time: 2-3 months.
Frenum
The needle pierces through the
flexible skin of the underside of the shaft just behind
the penis head.
Healing time: 4-6 months. |
Guiche
The piercing is located under the
scrotal sac near the anus. Not recommended for men who
ride bicycles.
Healing time: 4-6 months.
Hafada/scrotum
The scrotum skin can be pierced
pretty much anywhere. Care needs to
be taken not to pierce the testicle sac
itself.
Healing time: 2-3 months.
Lorum
A variation of the frenum. The
piercing is at the base of the shaft near the scrotum.
Healing time: 2-3 months.
Ladder
Several frenum piercings from the
base of the shaft to the top.
Healing time: 4-6 months.
Prince
Albert
The piercing is performed by inserting a needle receiving
tube into the urethra and then starting the needle from
the outside and feeding it out through the tube. A ring
is then
inserted.
Healing time: 4-6 weeks.
Pubic
Piercing is done above the shaft in
the pubic hair patch.
Healing time: 4-6 weeks. |

What
about? |
1.
Does it hurt during or after?
There
may be some momentary
discomfort experienced as pinching,
or pressure, or perhaps a burning or
stinging sensation. This depends primarily on the
placement of the piercing and the skill of the piercer.
Most people say afterwards they are in no discomfort.
For a few minutes to a few days, some people do
experience on and off tingling, slight stinging
or pinching sensations.
2.
How is the piercing done?
Piercings
should only be done with sterile disposable piercing
needles. The piercing is made using an extremely
sharp beveled piercing
needle which is specifically designed
for this purpose. Immediately following the piercing,
the jewelry is inserted, essentially pushing the
needle out as the jewelry goes in.
3.
Will there be blood?
It's
possible, but most people do
not bleed at all or very little. Certain
piercings, such as a Prince Albert, can
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bleed off and on for several days. This is common
and not cause for concern unless the bleeding is
profuse.
4.
What about healing time?
Times
vary by the individual. Also, where on the body
the piercing is done is a factor. The initial healing
occurs when the body closes off the
opening and the piercing is no longer
an open wound, but still needs a
degree of gentleness. After more time, the skin
becomes tougher and can be treated like the rest
of your body.
5.
What about sex?
Use
common sense and limit activity
during the first few weeks. A lot also depends on
where your piercing is. An ampallang piercing needs
much more care than one in the pubic area.
Increase activity as the piercing heals.
These FAQs adapted from Rings Of Desire FAQ list.
For the more extensive and detailed list, access
site RingsOfDesire.com
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